4 Ways to Make the Most of Being a Single Pet Parent

Our dogs bring joy to our lives. Coming home to their unfiltered excitement, simply to see you, can easily turn a bad day around. If you live alone—whether that be because you’re single or because of a physical distance between yourself and your partner—your dog is probably your constant companion and (let’s face it) best friend. But single pet-parenthood isn’t always easy. So, here are a few tips to making the best of being a single pet parent.

Time Management

As humans, we have to work to make a living. As a single pet parent, we work to give our dogs the best lives possible. But they don’t know that, and they spend their days waiting for our return from our place-that-isn’t-home. (Unless they go to a daycare facility.) Dedicate time each day to spend with your pup. Have some parent-dog bonding time. Work that time into your daily schedule. It may seem silly at first, but your pup—and your mental health—will thank you.

Spend Time (And Money) On Training

Training is by far the best way to bond with your dog and build trust. Sure, it can cost a pretty penny, especially if you continue training or if there’s specific training you want to do with your dog, but it’s entirely worth it. Many dogs love learning, so this is the perfect opportunity for both of you to learn new skills.

Take Part In Activities

Go on hikes. Run. Take evening walks. Go to dog parks. Take a day trip or a road trip. But it’s important that you both like the activities, or at least one of you will be unhappy. If your dog doesn’t do well at dog parks, don’t take them to one because you’re going to spend your time more concerned about a potential incident than enjoying your pup play. If you have an older dog, or even a dog who just doesn’t like strenuous activity, you may have to do leisurely walks in lieu of hiking. Many dog groups put on activities too.

Join A Local Dog Community.

The D.C. area has We The Dogs DC and DC Single Dog Parents, both Instagram communities. (And if you want to start a Frederick dog group, email me! Because Frederick needs one.) These are safe spaces to share the love of your dog with others who understand what your pup means to you. You’re with a group of similarly-minded individuals. And if you follow a dog parent/dog duo on social media, don’t be afraid to reach out. The point is, life and parenthood (of any kind) are better with community. This is a surefire way for both you and your pup to make new friends.

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Just like our relationships with people, we have to get intentional about our relationships with our dogs. No matter the reason for your home just being you and your dog, make the most of it. And if you see me around with my pup, be sure to come up and say hello!